I got along superbly with my in-laws soon after i got married 3 years ago.Things changed when i got pregnant and had some complications.My mil became over-indulgent,over-bearing and very very annoying.she only wanted to take care of me but she was just too much,while i was admitted in the hospital,she came everyday,wanted to stay overnight to take care of me.she never really gave me space.she interfered with all the medical procedures and medicines they gave me(she is a retired nurse)she complained about everything and had an opinion for everything.AFter the baby came she got too excited and never gave me space and she acted like an expert in baby care,but her ideas were only out dated. i have snapped at her at times but she still dint back off.she even accompained me back to the country i live from my home country(i was there to have the baby)i continued resenting her,she is very stupid and talks and talks about her son and daughter and tells everyone who says my baby looks like me”no she looks like her dad”or “she looks like her aunt” now shes back and we dont call eachother.she only calls my son,now she wants to visit again for my daughter’s 1st birthday.i dont want her to.i have all those feelings coming back again.i can’t stand her.i don’t want things to be this way.i hate her holding or kissing my baby.(very bad i know) why am i so bitter? will this every change?what should i do?
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Open Question: Still bitter about my MIL.will it ever change.?
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