Open Question: My family are really hurting my feelings….they are disapointed that i am pregnant with a boy….?
they also dont like my name choice……my mum wanted me to have a girl, and now i can just tell shes not as intersted in the pregnancy, and she doesnt like my name choice, she like classic names, my nan wanted a great grand daughter bacuase there is so many boys in my family, now it seems that this baby is less special! (its not to me!!!), my aunties even said (jokingly) we are disappointed !! what have you done!! no you were supposed to have a girl!!!…..even tho it was a joke it was infront of everyone and it really hurt my feelings,…..my nan was also upset with me for finding out the gender she begged me not to, making me feel very torn between my family and what me and my husband wanted,,,i went with what we wanted…..i know most of you will say its your life not your family’s but there opinion is importnant to me…..i feel like theve put a dampner on this whole pregnancy! even if they are joking they shouldnt say these things. i am so hurt, im trying not to care what they think but its hard.
